Today (November 19) is an important day all over the world. It is World Day for Prevention of Child Abuse. This day was established to bring everyone from around the world to prevent the atrocity towards children. Let's join hands to stemming this growing issue.
If you are a child, read the following to know more.
What is child abuse?
When someone (an adult or an older child) deals with children in an inappropriate manner, it is child abuse. It could be physical or mental.
I am confused as to whether the behavior is ok or not. What should I do?
If you think someone did something inappropriate to you, talk to a trusted grown up immediately. It could be your parent, an older brother or sister or your school counselor. But please talk to somebody as soon as possible.
I feel ashamed that this has happened to me. Maybe I said or did something to anger the adult.
You have been treated in a wrong manner and IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Do not blame yourself for something that you did or did not do. Nothing can justify somebody treating you in an appropriate manner.
But the person who behaved inappropriately with me is someone I know very well.
Nobody should do anything inappropriate to you. It is wrong. If you suspect it is something that makes you feel uncomfortable or are unsure about, please report it immediately to someone you trust.
I am scared to tell somebody about this. What if they hurt me or parents?
Child abuse is a crime. People can be punished for behaving wrongly with children. Find help as soon as you can and talk about your fears and concerns.
If you are an adult who is reading this, read the following to see how you can help.
Child abuse can be prevented. And each of us can do our part to ensure that our kids are safe always. If you suspect that a child has been abused, here's what you can do to help.
Believing the child is the first step towards helping the child. Listening and offering support to the child is of utmost importance.
Talk to the child and reassure him/her. Gain the child's trust and assure him/her that you will keep the information confidential.
Seek professional help immediately by approaching a local organization that deals with issues of child abuse.
Look for obvious physical and behavioral changes in the child. If you have had frequent interactions with the child, you will be able to notice some obvious changes.
Some possible red flags include, general physical discomfort, unexplained bruising, physical trauma, depression, changes in sleep patterns, fatigue, and resistance to participate in activities that were previously enjoyed.
If you are unsure about anything, it is best to seek professional help immediately than trying to resolve the issue on your own.
Educate children about the importance of 'good' and 'bad' touch. Keep all channels of communication open so that they will find it comfortable talking to you.
If you are uncomfortable talking about this subject, refer to outside resources such as books and websites that can help you discuss this appropriately with kids.
Remember, child abuse can be prevented. And if you come across a situation that needs intervention, please do your part and help a child.
